About me

My story

My name is Miriam Terbonßen, 30 jaar oud, en samen met mijn partner woon ik in Groningen. Ik wil je graag mijn verhaal vertellen over waarom ik zo gepassioneerd ben over lichaamswerk en hoe deze benadering mij heeft geholpen om me weer thuis te voelen in mijn eigen lichaam.

Ik ben opgegroeid in Duitsland, vlakbij Dortmund, in een omgeving die gekenmerkt werd door een echte ‘arbeiderssfeer’. De nadruk lag op presteren, intellect, en vooral het voldoen aan de norm. Ik leerde me te gedragen zoals van mij werd verwacht, en legde al mijn aandacht buiten mijzelf. Ik leerde te zorgen voor anderen en aan te voelen wat zij nodig hadden, zodat ik voldeed aan de verwachtingen die anderen van mij hadden. Mijn eigen gevoelens en perspectieven onderdrukte ik. Hiervoor kreeg ik bevestiging en liefde, dus deed ik datgene dat hiervoor nodig was. Zo heb ik het toen overleefd in mijn omgeving. Én toen ik mijn puberteit naderde, werd ik er diep ongelukkig en letterlijk ziek van. Mijn lichaam gaf een alarmsignaal: de opgekropte emoties en ingehouden bewegingen zetten zich vast in mijn lijf en keerden zich naar binnen. Het besef hiervan drong pas later tot me door, toen ik echt leerde om in mijn lichaam te wonen en naar de signalen te luisteren.

Driven by my quest for my own identity and the question of why the world is the way it is, I chose to study Psychology. At the age of 18, I took the step out of my family system to the neighboring country, the Netherlands. From that moment on, a phase of awareness and inner development began. Although my studies at a cognitive level provided some answers to my questions, fundamental issues remained unanswered. These answers were beyond intellect, beyond theories and facts. Despite not being able to precisely articulate what I was searching for, I continued to seek.

Tijdens en na mijn studie heb ik veel gereisd. Mijn reizen brachten me in contact met andere culturen, verdiepten mijn liefde voor de natuur en verruimden mijn perspectief op de wereld. Ze introduceerden me in verschillende stromingen van meditatie en spiritualiteit. Toch bleef ik pijnlijk ervaren dat, waar ik ook was, mijn eigen thuis zelfs aan de andere kant van de wereld niet te vinden was, hoe lang ik ook op een meditatiekussen zat.

Back in the Netherlands, during my graduation period, I came into contact with the training program for body-oriented therapy at the AUMM institute. Without a clear idea of what awaited me, I felt deep inside that I might find my answers here. Five intense years of training followed. What makes this program unique is the strong emphasis on personally experiencing and embodying this form of therapy. The knowledge I now impart in my practice is experiential knowledge. A fundamental value to which I am committed as a therapist is that I consistently reflect on myself, passing on what I personally live. I continue to deepen my expertise in my field, attend additional trainings, and regularly participate in supervision and intervision. This way, I can truly be there for you and be a clear mirror for you.

In the training, I learned how to take my own inner child by the hand. I discovered how to create space for my own movements, allow my emotions, and bring my inner world outward. I learned to understand my boundaries and discovered what I wanted and didn't want. As an adult, I reclaimed my place. I started inhabiting my body again and found my home. My body is a haven where I can always return. Like the roots of a tree, my body gives me stability to explore life. 

Primal Rebirth Therapie Groningen

Omdat de lichaamsgerichte benadering mij zo wezenlijk heeft geholpen in mijn zoektocht naar mijzelf voel ik een sterk verlangen om mijn ervaringen door te geven. It is my mission to guide others in learning to listen to their bodies in relation to their personal challenges. I wish for everyone to rediscover the ability to trust what the body communicates, to come home again and find peace there. From this foundation, we can lead a rich, fulfilling, connected, and loving life. With my work, I aim to contribute to this goal.

With my experience, passion, and knowledge in both psychology and body-oriented therapeutic work, I create a safe space for your journey. Attuned and with careful consideration, I align with your needs and personal situation. 

It is a deep belief of mine that you already carry all the wisdom within you that you need to take the next step. I journey with you, sometimes nudging you forward, or holding up a loving mirror. So that you can reconnect with your own knowing, your own truth. Your home.

The kernwaarden from which I work, are: 

  • Compassion
  • Thoroughness
  • Truthfulness
  • Presence
I offer therapy in Dutch, English, and German.

If you'd like to know more about me, have further questions, or would like a free introductory meeting, feel free to contact me.

I am here and warmly welcome you. ♡

"Before you tell me how you teach and preach, show me how you live and give."

Some facts about me

  • In my free time, I love everything related to creating. From painting to making jewelry, cooking, knitting... I also enjoy incorporating my creativity into shaping the therapy sessions. 
  • Additionally, I engage in gardening and processing wild herbs. If you were to look into my kitchen at home, you'd find a myriad of dried herbs and tinctures. The teas I offer during my sessions often have a calming effect on the nervous system.
  • I love dancing! Almost every morning, I move to a song to ground myself in my body. My favorite music to dance to is oriental, with plenty of drums. You might encounter this music in the sessions as well.
  • Do you have another question about me? Feel free to ask!

Background

2013-2017  Bachelor of Science Psychologie, Universiteit Twente

2018-2019  Master of Science Psychologie, Rijksuniverisiteit Groningen

2019-2020  Coach for adolescents with autism, Team 050

2029-2023  Primal Rebirth Therapy, AUMM institute

2021-2022  Psychologist, Interbeing Psychologists

2024-nu      Training body-oriented trauma therapy,  AUMM institute

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